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Dear Friends,

I know I told you only two weeks ago that it would be my last column for the rest of the summer. Well, I guess I lied, but not deliberately. Maybe better that I say I misjudged, misjudged that I should share more with you about several things. So

Varia - a number of unrelated actions/events:

Dear Friends,

In past years it would have been my practice to take a sabbatical from my weekly column. Circumstances have forced a change this year but I am sure you are tired from reading about COVID and social distancing and the like, even from your pastor. So, unless something new develops, this will be my last column for at least a few weeks. That being said, I want to go over a few things for the last time.

Dear Friends,

Before I go into another explanation of the logistics of weekend liturgies, I thought I would offer a reflection, specifically on last Sunday’s Gospel.

One of the most famous lines of Scripture appeared in last Sunday’s Gospel.  “Come to me, all you who are weary and find life burdensome, and I will refresh you.” (Matt. 11:28). And most often, it would be that line that would be the focus of preaching.  But last week, I preferred to preach on the opening line of the Gospel, “On one occasion Jesus spoke thus:   ‘Father, Lord of heaven and earth, to you  I offer praise; for what you have hidden from the learned and the clever you have revealed to the merest children.’” (Matt. 11:25).

Dear Friends,

Because of the 4th of July holiday, legally celebrated on July 3rd, the bulletin needs to be in today, Tuesday, June 30th. Yesterday, the Governor announced a “pause,” as he calls it, ( I would call it a postponement), without a new date, in the reopening of the state, which involved the call-back of the opening of indoor dining. I thought that original date would be a good sign that the numbers for worship would soon go up. I now don’t think that’s going to happen too soon and the 100 max number will be around for a while. Because of this, I am repeating most of my column from last week which explains the systems we will use for celebrating Mass on the weekends, with a few changes. I have always said this is a “work in progress,” as experience teaches us new lessons.

Dear Friends,
Did you ever say to yourself, “I think I’ve been down this road before?” That’s the way I feel. It’s Wednesday morning (6/24) and we received word late last night that now that the Governor has increased the inside numbers to 25% of building capacity or 100, whichever is lower, parishes are now free to increase to that number for weekend Masses. For our church, 25% would be about 210, so, obviously, 100 is the number we will be working with for this weekend.

This new number requires some changes in the approach we took last week. Speaking of last weekend, I want to say thank you to all who made it work so easily last weekend. To the Ministers of Hospitality, the staff and all who simply “came to church,” your patience and cooperation were outstanding. Thank you.

Dear Friends,
First things first. Happy Father’s Day to all our dads. I hope this is a great day for you in every way possible. I have this on a plaque and I offer it as a reflection on fatherhood, though it does not speak to fatherhood directly:

“That man is a success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who leaves the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem or a rescued soul; who never lacked appreciation of earth’s beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had.”
- Robert Louis Balfour Stevenson

Dear Friends,

As I was preparing to write this column (it’s Wednesday, 6/10), a movie came to mind – The Day After Tomorrow, a 2004 sci- fi flick about a catastrophic natural disaster which ushered in a new ice age. Presumably, the “tomorrow” was the disaster and “the day after” was what the new reality experienced in its aftermath. In my mind, the tomorrow has been these last twelve weeks,  since  the  last  time  public  mass  was  offered  in  this church, ending with this coming Sunday, 6/14. Because the “day after” is Monday, June 15, 2020, when the first public mass will be offered again.

Before  everybody  gets  too  excited,  remember  what  I  said above, the “day after” marked the new reality.  The opening on Monday will be a “new reality.”  The daily masses will be restricted  to  50  people,   who  will  have  to   wear   masks throughout the entire mass and practice social distancing, every other pew, with six feet lateral space between attendees.  As in supermarkets, you will only be able to move about the church according  to  the  directional  arrows  on  the  floor,  even  if  it means a longer walk.  Even on the communion line, you will need to keep the six foot distance and at the end of mass to leave, without congregating and without breaking that distancing. It will be a new reality for sure.

Dear Friends,

I give my column up this week to Archbishop José Gomez, President of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops and his statement on the death of George Floyd. We were all horrified at the video which brought the tragedy and injustice of his death into our very homes. This should be for us a time to look into ourselves to be sure no taint of racism lingers there and to ask ourselves how we can bring an end to this scandalous evil in our country.

God Bless. Be Well and Be Safe
Fr. Ron

PS. As I write this on Tuesday morning, it is clear that churches will be cleared to open very soon. Please be sure to check the website daily for updated information.

Dear Friends,

Below is a column I wrote two years ago but I repeat it now. Especially in this pandemic and even more especially as we eagerly anticipate the gradual (for some, too gradual) easing of restrictions, we need to be reminded of who we are as Catholic Christians and what God is asking of us as our world starts up again. I pray that it renews your hope that the Spirit of the Lord Whom we love truly never abandons us but forever leads us to new life.

Today the Church celebrates the Feast of Pentecost, the gift from the Father and the Son of their Spirit to the disciples, gathered again in a room, which officially makes them the Church. And so, as we used to say in times past, today is the Feast of the birthday of the Church. We old timers remember the days when Pentecost would have been highlighted as the birthdate of the Church. And this is something that can’t be denied. As it is with all birthdays, so it is with the Church, born from the side of her crucified Lord, (as many great spiritual writers have reflected down through the ages), and brought to life by the power of the Holy Spirit. And so, Happy Birthday, Church! I repeat below some thoughts from years past because, I believe they help us reflect on the full reality of this great gift the Church receives from her Lord.

Dear Friends,
In my column last Sunday, I told you I would share with you parts of the directives we received for the implementations of Phases II and III when it comes time. As I was going through them, it became clear to me that rather than try to summarize them, it would be better to let you read them, in their entirety. If you click on the green COVID 19 – UPDATES icon on the homepage of the parish website you will be able to read the directives in their entirety to give you an idea of what things will look like as we move from phase to phase. More specifics about the parish implementation of these directives will appear as we are about to move from one phase to another.

I just want to say a word about the Solemnity of the Lord’s Ascension which we celebrate today. This celebration has always been called Ascension Thursday, because it was celebrated 40 days after the Lord’s Resurrection. Most of the country moved the celebration of the Ascension to the Sunday before Pentecost some years ago but the northeast kept it on a Thursday. This year, because of the coronavirus, it has been moved to this last Sunday before Pentecost so it will be the first time in many years that many Catholics will be celebrating it. The Ascension marks the final event of the Paschal Mystery, the single saving event that is the heart of our Catholic faith, the suffering, death, Resurrection and Ascension into glory of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. It is the return of the Lord to the Father after completing the work of our salvation.

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